Category Archives: Caring

Grief, Loss and Bereavement – a free workshop

Workshop Date: Wednesday 31st March 2021 @ 7:30pm

For some Christians, the death of a loved one is inexcusable. Why didn’t God heal him/her? Did God ignore my prayers?

In this workshop we raise some of the big questions around death and dying, and around prayer and faith, as we explore bereavement from a Christian perspective.

We recognise that this is an emotive topic so we have Chaplaincy colleagues (Deacon Marilyn and Deacon Rachel) available for 1-1 discussions and prayer in ‘breakout rooms’ if required.

The workshop is set deliberately in Holy Week so that we can anticipate the joy of celebrating Christ’s resurrection, and thus bring some answers to our questions.
The event is designed for people from churches in the Sutton Park Circuit, and will be led by Revd Stephen Froggatt. Questions raised by this group will inform Stephen’s sabbatical study on the need for lament in public worship.

Revd Emily Young will also be on hand to ‘make the virtual tea’ and assist with the technology. We all hope you can join us online on 31st March.

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Hybrid Church

Is a Hybrid Church the new way following Lock down?  A brief report by Marion and Tom Watts following attendance at two virtual meetings organised by the Learning Network, West midlands.  Led by Deacon Kerry Scarlet, John Pedley and Geoff Bond.

Marion and I and others from Sutton Park Circuit were at two interesting and exciting virtual meetings on the mornings of Tuesday and Thursday 28 and 30 July about worshipping in a Hybrid Church.  What is a hybrid church I hear you ask?  Well very simply it is “a gathering online and in person”.  Prior to the virus lock down we met for worship in church and since lock down some of us have worshipped in virtual congregations via technology, face book etc.  A hybrid act of worship could combine the traditional worship in our buildings for those able and interested and link it to those who want to be part of worship via the use of modern technology.

Note for number geeks: Some figures from the first meeting, if every link counted on a virtual worship on average represents two people worshipping (some just one, others couples and up to families of five) then the Birmingham District Easter Day Service had well over 1,000 worshippers during the service and we have over 500 worshippers on a typical Sunday.  I have included those thoughts to let you know about surveys mentioned in our meeting.  Three separate surveys have recorded that between 24% and 27% of people in the UK are joining in a virtual act of worship on a Sunday.  Surveys prior to the virus showed 7-10% attended worship in a Christian Church on a typical Sunday.  We don’t have to be a number geek to see the potential!

I’m sure that everyone who has watched a virtual service cannot fail to be impressed by the number of different people from all ages and all backgrounds who have taken part in the leading of such services; demonstrating its potential.  The first grouping of these additional numbers applies to the younger elements of society.  It has been a breath of fresh air to be part of the Birmingham District acts of worship on Sunday mornings, the music has been to an exceptional standard, the sermons have been challenging with real Good News and the testimony supplied by the younger members of our churches has been amazing.  We would all agree that the future of the church lies with people younger than 40 and particularly those aged below 25 and it is these age ranges that have shared their faith so openly and so meaningfully.

The hybrid church is seen as worship that is available both in our re-opened buildings and also available to people’s homes by technology.  This means that our churches have the opportunity to attract those tasting the Christian Faith by technology, those who have difficulties in making it to church on many Sundays and those who want to return to the building; particularly for direct fellowship with each other.  If we are unable to sing in the building, then there will be those who may for a change want to join the services online so that they may enjoy singing along.  All of which demonstrates the wonderful potential for bringing worship into today’s world and attracting new people and others that have previously given up.  One thing that this will mean is that congregations need to brush-up on their evangelism, sharing with new people online, discussing worship styles and introducing new ways and telling people that church now offers the possibility to worship within a building or at home, all making use of exciting technology that we can share together and with our communities.

The second meeting was particularly showing interest in inclusive church particularly for people with disabilities.  Hybrid church will mean that we can be available to people who may consider themselves on the margins of society, those for whom going to a church building is fraught with difficulties, those who can’t always get the transport organised and also those for whom Sunday morning is simply too much hassle.  Some more figures: 20% of children have special needs and therefore this often means their families find it impossible to attend a church building; yet it does not necessarily mean they’re not interested in the Christian Faith.  45% of people with disabilities are over 65, how many of these might find hybrid church as their way to Jesus?  Finally, 90% of families with children, who have special needs are unchurched; surely the church should be able to respond to such families with the love of God.

The leaders of these meetings will shortly be letting us have more details about the meetings and the way forward for the Christian ‘Hybrid’ Church and we will hope to be able to share these with our circuit churches.

So, Hybrid Church!  How exciting is that, how many more people will be given the opportunity to come to Christ because God’s gift of technology is at last being put to real use, how many of our churches will be able to share the love of God with people on the fringes of faith?

With prayer, discussion in house groups, reading of the new ideas as they are born, more discussion in church meetings, with volunteers and of course the direction of the Holy Spirit.  Perhaps, as has happened so many times throughout the history of God’s people, just perhaps, this terrible time of lock down and suffering will, with God’s Grace, enable us in the Sutton Park Methodist Circuit to bring hybrid church to our community, country and, who knows to play our part in reaching out to the world the world.  With God’s help we may become a church that doesn’t sit and wait, but a church that reaches out; Alleluia amen!

Marion and Tom Watts

Peggy Hunt

On Friday, July 17th, Peggy Hunt, a dearly loved and cherished member of Kingstanding Methodist Church and of the Sutton Park Circuit, died at Good Hope Hospital, after a brief period of illness. Our prayers surround her brother Bob and the wider family, and all her friends and colleagues at this sad time of loss.

Peggy was held in deep love and respect by all who had the privilege to know her. Her faithfulness to God, her great generosity, her wisdom and patience, and most especially her love, inspired us all. Her family have been close at her side.

I will count it as one of the most wonderful privileges of my life to have been with Peggy as she travelled to be with her Lord, taking the hand of Jesus and stepping on into glory. We praise God for Peggy and all of the gifts and graces that she shared with us, as we entrust her to God’s everlasting love and goodness.

Rev Kathryn Darby.

NOTE

On 19th July a recording of Peggy, made a couple of weeks before she died, features in the evening Circuit Service.

GDPR for Church Stewards 24th July 9:30am

A reminder to all Church Stewards that we shall be meeting via Zoom at 09:30 on Friday 24th July to talk about GDPR in the Local Church. The aims of the meeting will be to help each church complete two documents:

  1. The Processor Record for that Church
  2. The Data Audit for that Church

It is hoped that at least one representative from each church will attend, although there is no upper limit. I will use screen sharing to show you where to find the template documents you need on the TMCP website and how to fill them both in. Remember that the deadline for completing these is 1st September 2020 in time for the Circuit Meeting.

Thank you to all the churches who have already submitted their Data Audit documents to me for comment. Your annotated documents will greatly help the other churches who are still working on theirs.

The Zoom Meeting ID is 899 6072 1913

Please get in touch with me if you don’t have the password.

I look forward to seeing you there.
Stephen

Circuit Steward Report June 2020 by Marion Watts

Four months ago the word zoom, to me, meant a camera lens or to rush around. Now Zoom is an accepted way of holding meetings, Bible Studies, coffee mornings, pastoral support and keeping in touch with family and friends. I thought conference calls were just for highflying executives, but Methodism has embraced this as a way of conducting essential business. The Methodist Conference will be held ‘virtually’ at the end of the month.

Likewise, how many of us thought that we would be willing to be videoed while singing, reading The Bible or praying, in preparation for Circuit and District services, possibly being seen by hundreds on Facebook or You Tube. How quickly we adapt! This has been just one aspect of the Corona Virus pandemic and I hope that you don’t think that I am trivialising the effects of the last few months.

People have been challenged, traumatised, bereaved, isolated, exhausted and scared. People are needing foodbanks more than ever, worrying about their jobs, schooling, exams, and their very futures. At the very time we have needed each other most we have had to keep physically apart. But in the midst of this suffering what an amazing response there has been across the age range, from virtual choirs, sponsored walks, volunteer shoppers, prayer chains, and so much more. We recognise that not everyone is able or willing to engage with technology and their needs must be met, across Sutton Park Circuit individual churches have found ways to maintain contact with their own congregations, especially those without email. As a CLT we have explored ways of reaching out to everyone and I thank all the Ministers for their endeavours. I also wish to thank John and Naomi for their continuing support, dealing with Treasury matters is even more testing in the current situation for John.

How will life look in another 6 months? How will Church look in another 6 months? We just don’t know other than it will be different because we are all different, affected by our individual experiences. One thing that won’t be different is our unchanging God – always with us, always loving us. So we look and plan ahead in faith and holding all things in prayer.

Marion Watts, Senior Circuit Steward

In Memoriam

We have created a new page on the Circuit website which you will see in the Menu. It is called “In Memoriam” (In Memory) and is designed to collect and remember the names of all those who have died in these strange times, and who had links with this Circuit. In these days when we are presented with faceless statistics in the media, it is good to remember the human face behind each life lost.

Please email Stephen.Froggatt@methodist.org.uk if you have names to add.

May the faithful departed, by the mercy of God, rest in peace and rise in glory. Amen.

An at-home service if you can’t get to a funeral

With the current restrictions on movement in place it may not be possible for everyone to attend a funeral. The Methodist Church offers this short act of worship to help you say your formal goodbyes while remaining in your home.  

At-home service if you can’t get to a funeral (Pdf)
At-home service if you can’t get to a funeral (Word)
LARGE PRINT VERSION At-home service if you can’t get to a funeral (Pdf)

Hospital Visiting – Good Hope Hospital

Dear friends in the Sutton Park Circuit, 

We are at the moment being urged to keep social distancing in place, in order to help curb the wave of the coronavirus in the UK. 

In a time when we are asked to “keep a distance” and more physically separate from one another it is good to remember Paul’s words to the Romans:

What then are we to say about these things? If God is for us, who is against us? He who did not withhold his own Son, but gave him up for all of us, will he not with him also give us everything else? Who will bring any charge against God’s elect? It is God who justifies. Who is to condemn? It is Christ Jesus, who died, yes, who was raised, who is at the right hand of God, who indeed intercedes for us. Who will separate us from the love of Christ? Will hardship, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? …. No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor rulers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord. 
(Romans 8. 31ff)

Friends, let us, therefore, daily renew our faith and trust in the Living God, and be praying for one another in hope. 

Please do get in touch, if you are concerned about anyone who is in the hospital at the moment, or in the upcoming weeks, particularly if there are weeks when there is no visiting allowed at the hospital. The UHB Chaplaincy team covers: the QE, Heartlands, Solihull, and Good Hope Hospitals. You can email me:  Kathryn.darby@heartofengland.nhs.uk or phone the Erdington manse (0121 386 5612) or phone the Chaplaincy and leave a message (0121 424 7676). Do keep your own minister and pastoral visitor in touch with the situation. 

God bless, Rev Kathryn Darby UHB Chaplain Good Hope Hospital

Using down time to get GDPR up to date :-)

Local Churches in the Circuit now have many folk confined to working at home. A good use of the time now would be to make progress with the GDPR Data Audit, which is due in from all churches at the September Circuit Meeting.

What Needs to Be Done

Go to the TMCP website https://www.tmcp.org.uk/about/data-protection

Scroll down to this section:

Template Notices, Registers and Forms

Read the first and the third, and fill in the first two. What could be more fun?

Questions, as ever, to me. Stephen.Froggatt@methodist.org.uk

Accommodation – Can you help?

A desperate plea to anyone who owns a holiday cottage, or knows someone who does, that is suitable accommodation for a chemically sensitive & allergic person who desperately needs the right environment in which to heal. Preferably in a location that is reasonably elevated and away from crop growing. South Midlands, Cotswolds, Malverns would be ideal places but anywhere would be considered.

Please contact stephen.froggatt@methodist.org.uk if you can help. Thank you.